Do you love your child ???
1.Do not spank the child in an emotional outburst of anger
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2. Do not shout at the child it only leads to a shouting match.
3.Do not be wholly engrossed in the TV blissfully unaware of the tantrums thrown by the child.
4.Do not be glued to the TV set and not all mindful of what the kid is up to.
5.In order to get rid of the child do not put him in front of the TV
6.To feed the child do not prop him up before the TV
7.Do not chit-chat on the phone for long and fail to have an eye on your child
8.Do not gossip around and neglect your child
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9.Be attentive to the child's needs but don't be breathing down his back constantly
10 Engage the child in teaching rhymes, songs, prayers and playing small games. The granny's around here seem to be more interested in learning them from TV serials, cinema music, soap operas and talk shows. This becomes an added responsibility for harassed parent who is burdened in bringing up the just born infant and the very grown up infant who do well to raise their hearts to God while keeping a watchful eye on the child
The child is mischievous by nature otherwise it is not an natural child. As parents and grandparents we should not be childish and selfish. Remember when the child grows up and becomes bitter because of certain bad traits he will curse us and more that a severe punishment awaits from God.No parent would want that to happen to their beloved child.
Try spank only after trying out other methods such as 'time out' talking out with him , raising your voice , showing your disapproval facially in no uncertain ways. Give inducements and rewards for good behaviour, take away privileged.
Let not the child for God's sake become highly temperamental negative and destructive
A child is God's beautiful flower do not crush it in your foolishness. It is very very painful to God.
Grandparents and mothers have to be strictly. It is a responsible job
I have also noticed that they are not feeding the child with proper food in a timely manner
All these things make me sad
Out of frustration I keep praying that the blasted TV go out of order. God help me
Spare the Rod and Spoil the Child
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